Sunday, July 5, 2009

Old Stone Presbyterian Church


Spoke this morning at the Oldstone Presbyterian Church (and on the radio) about the opportunities to become a foster parent.  Used that extremely convicting scripture where Jesus says, “Whatever you did not do for the least of these, you did not do for me,” and sent them off into damnation.  Had a very welcome response from these people after church, and found out this local church already supports CASA and two other children-in-crisis centers, so I was preaching to the choir. 

Saturday, July 4, 2009

4th of July

One of my favorite holidays! Went to the Calvary United Methodist Pancake Breakfast, got my picture taken with the fine cooks, made opening remarks at the welcome ceremony along with the other dignitaries (yoohoo, have I arrived??) and then got to ride in my hometown parade as MISS WEST VIRGINIA! I have truly dreamed of this day since I was a little girl. My very first pageant was the Ripley Little Miss Firecracker, and I gave this corny speech about “If you’ll let me be Miss Firecracker, I’ll sparkle and shine for Ripley all year long!”


I had been invited to the parade at the Greenbrier in White Sulphur Springs, so my parents decided that they needed to accompany me to this event (wonder why?). Anyway, as soon as Ripley’s parade was over, we switched out cars and drove pell-mell to Greenbrier County. Had no time to go to the bathroom or catch a bite to eat, so lunch was about a hundred Tootsie Rolls from the candy basket! Got there in time, met up with my Monarch Miss, Danielle Jolliffe, who has a very special place in my heart! Connie Jones was there to meet us with her car equipped with signs and decorations, which was another blessing! The parade there was put on for the benefit of the guests of the Greenbrier for the weekend, which they say is one of their busiest times, the 4th and Christmas. We circled the gorgeous property there, and there were several other interesting things in the parade, unicyclists, balloon artists, adult community bands, dance troupes, etc. It was fun, and perfect weather. After the parade, we mingled on the lawn there where they had blow-up games for the kids, free watermelon and ice cream. I got my picture taken with several kids and made a few new friends.


We were all tired by then, and the high heels weren’t working too well in the grass, so we decided to check in. My mother had stayed at the Greenbrier about 20 years ago, and she had warned me that the room would be small and not as impressive as you might think, so imagine our delight when we opened the door to the room they had provided for me, and it was a SUITE! It was so scrumptious that we took pictures of all the rooms: A living room with TV, bedroom with huge king-sized bed and another TV and relaxing chairs, two walk-in closets equipped with robes, huge thirsty towels in a black and white marble bath – WOW!! Mom almost cried, we were so overwhelmed. Major thank you to Jim and Cathy Justice and the President of the Greenbrier! They sure know how to make you feel like a queen – it was truly a moment I’ll never forget!



The day got even better, if you could imagine that. We changed clothes and went down for our second meal since the pancakes 10 hours ago, passing by families lounging in the lobbies where live music was playing, very opulent. We ate dinner at a buffet that reminded you of a cruise spread (ice sculptures, huge flower arrangements, the works!) and ate dinner while being entertained by Phil Dirt and the Dozers. I took the opportunity to go dance on the dance floor with some of the little girls that were dancing, and they mobbed me, tried to jerk the crown off my head (which was pinned on, regrettably), and I almost fell over on the ground in a dress – my parents were watching and dying laughing, but it was kind of scary! I have no idea where their parents were, but I spent the next hour swinging and dancing with all these kids and had a blast. Met the nicest couple from Washington, D.C. that sat at our table, and they invited us to come and stay at their home if we were ever in their neck of the woods, which we surely would do, we liked them so much.

Headed to bed in that unbelievable room – I didn’t think you could ever beat 4th of July in Ripley, but I sure had the time of my life today!

Here is a video of my 1st PAGEANT! I haven't changed much...was a dork then and

a dork now!


Friday, July 3, 2009

Ripley Arts and Crafts Fair

Went to the Ripley Arts & Crafts Fair and had some delicious potatoes and cheese before I started back on my hateful Miss America diet.  Spent several hours reviewing the pictures Trey had posted and sending them off to others for their comments.


Thursday, July 2, 2009

Miss America Song Selection

Spent the ENTIRE day listening to 391 song snippets from www.musicalcreations.com to try to pick a new song for Miss America, and began the arduous process of compiling the paperwork.


 

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Miss America Photo Shoot

Spent the evening with Trey Barker, my official Miss America photographer – what fun that was!  He is so easy to work with, is so talented, and I think we came up with some really unique photos.  One of my favorites is the one where I’m on the trunk in the middle of the road.  To set the scene:  Been raining all day off and on, still misting when we went out to “try again.”  There I am laying on this trunk, trucks coming down the road – they wouldn’t even hardly stop to get past me!  They’re probably thinking, “Some drugged-up weirdo out here laying on this wooden box, big enough to fit a dead body in!”  I cannot thank Misty enough for hooking me up with Trey, and can’t thank him enough for all the extra things he’s done for me.  Check out his web site at www.treybarkerphoto.com.  Would highly recommend him!

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Meeting with Mission WV Frameworks and DHHR - Martha Walker

My mother and I met this morning with Kelly Thompson and a few others at Mission West Virginia, the group that does public relations for recruitment of foster and adoptive families as well as administers several other programs that assist DHHR.  We learned of the many ways we could partner together to bring new awareness to the public of the many opportunities to help families in crisis.  One of the most interesting things we talked about was their program to transition foster children out of the system.  Can you imagine turning 18, having had your parents’ rights permanently terminated, been moved from foster home to foster home, and then you’re just on your own?  DHHR has programs to help fund college costs, but on the college breaks and the summers, you have no one to go home to.  That issue has really hit me hard, as I am so close to my family and their presence in my life is so huge – I don’t think I could make it.  We are looking for families willing to become a mentor in their lives, willing to invite them to holidays and family gatherings, take an interest in them and be an encouragement.  

Please log on to their site at www.wvmission.org for more information.

We left Mission West Virginia and headed off to see my trainer, Taylor Stillpass at Hurricane, where he critiqued my body and suggested some changes I needed to be working on.  From there, we jetted over to TJ Maxx to shop for “headshot clothes,” things with interesting necks to use for tomorrow’s photo shoot.


Had an afternoon appointment with Jason Najmulski and Marsha Daddisman from DHHR Cabinet Secretary Martha Walker’s office to discuss legislation we might pursue that would help CPS workers or other DHHR needs.  They were so incredibly welcoming and forthcoming.  They had packets prepared showing me the relevant statistics, where the money is going and what holes in the system we currently have.  I could not have asked for a better reception or more cooperation, and I am really looking forward to working with them to achieve the goals that will better our response teams in all areas. 


Off to the mall to look for more funky-neck clothes, and mom and I practically crawled home, glad to be out of those high heels and power suits!

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Big Bear Campground + Miss Pennsylvania Pageant

6:00 a.m. came quickly.  Left Ripley, drove to Bruceton Mills to be present at the dedication and ribbon-cutting of the Big Bear Lake Campground Waterpark.  The dedication of the volunteers and board members' efforts to put together a $2.1 million dollar investment into their camp was again an example of the best of West Virginia.  I had my first personal papparazzi, age 10, who helped me explore the park. 


Pictured:  [Male in yellow shirt - Miss West Virginia Auditor] - [Small boy in front of water park - my personal photographer & auditors son]

Drove to Pittsburgh to hook back up with Miss WV 2008 Kayla Lynam at her apartment.  There we laughed and joked, finally got another meal, and took a nap.  Spent the evening at the Miss Pennsylvania pageant with Kayla and Barb Brunetti, where we saw {ck} crowned.  I am looking forward to getting to know her at Miss America.  One of the most interesting things was that the talent at their pageant was absolutely phenomenal! 


Pictured: [Miss Teen Pennsylvania Contestants.  Miss WV 08 - Kayla Lynam & Miss WV Board President - Barb Brunetti]